Then you have the "human" rocks, the ones that have helped me to re-start my families lives. Please do not feel offended if you are not on this list!
Joanne - My sister in law, someone who has been totally selfless in helping me with the initial bits of the funeral, for being there at the end, for coming to the pub with me and being exceptional with the kids.
Mum B - Putting her life on hold to come over and help with family life from the start of June until September. Only today has she had the burden of the 3 kids lifted from her shoulders. One thing is for sure, I would not have had to confidence or drive to clear as much of the house so quickly without her help and support. I hope you have a lovely week in Blackpool x.
Martin, Phil, Becky & Jamie - For being there throughout this whole ordeal, for helping with the kids all summer and being genuinely nice guys and gals.
Sharon - For organising a lovely afternoon in Taunton for the "Western connection" towards the end of August, a fitting afternoon and possibly the first time ever I have chain drank cups of coffee (Thanks to Pauline & Sandra for lining the drinks up!).
Mum H - For your continuing support and offer to help with the kids on a daily basis going forward.
The School Mums - I would love to name you all, but for my own safety and not missing anyone out I am not going to! - Accepting me and talking to me and making me feel welcome in the playground, it is not just the kids who are intimidated by all the people in the morning - many many lovely ladies and ever so nice :)
The "Camden" Crew, the ones who helped plan and lay on a wonderful send off for Ruth in Crawley after the funeral. The amount of personal effort that went into that is a testament to all of you and made it a special day.
I was asked if I was seeing a councillor by someone recently, to which I said, "Well yes and no". You see I talk in the real world about what's happening in my life. Since being back at work; I have done 6 weeks now, I probably have discussed my situation with 50 odd managers. All are great listeners and some provide some excellent advice.
Today is also a very poignant day too, as it was this day 12 years ago that myself and Ruth said "I do".
So until next time when I will rant about finances, love to you all xxx
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